Lex Talionis II: the matter of Israelis, Palestinians and more
Nor can goodness and Evil be equal. Repel (evil) with what is better: Then will he between whom and thee was hatred become as it were thy friend and intimate!
Joseph Smith, the first Mormon prophet, suggests in Journal of Discourses vol 2, pg 165-166 that such forbearance is appropriate the first time, but not thereafter:
Our enemies have prophesied that we would establish our religion by the sword; is it true? No, but if Missouri will not stay her cruel hand in her unhallowed persecutions against us, I restrain you not any longer: I say, in the name of Jesus Christ, by the authority of the Holy Priesthood, I this day turn the key that opens the heavens to restrain you no longer from this time forth. I will lead you to battle; and if you are not afraid to die, and feel disposed to spill your blood in your own defence, you will not offend me. Be not the aggressor—bear until they strike you on the one cheek; then offer the other and they will be sure to strike that then defend yourselves, and God will bear you off, and you shall stand forth clear before His tribunal.
The New Testament, however, suggests that this forbearance is not to be exercised only on the first occasion… Thus in Matthew 18.21-22 we read:
Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? Jesus said to him, I say not to you, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.
Also of interest is here the (possibly apocryphal) story of the Dalai Lama, who was asked how he would deal with a mosquito. “Brush it away,” he replied. “But what if it comes back?” “Brush it away again.” “But what if it comes back again?” “I crush it, and say ‘Come back as the Buddha!'”
For a detailed consideration of these issues in Islam, see Abdullah bin Hamid Ali‘s Islam and Turning the Other Cheek [.pdf], where this interesting discussion featuring the idea of forgiveness “seventy times” is also featured:
The Koran directs the Prophet — God’s mercy and peace be upon him — concerning the hypocrites, “Whether you ask for their forgiveness, or not, [their sin is unforgiveable]: if you ask seventy times for their forgiveness, Allah will not forgive them because they have rejected Allah and His messenger, and Allah guides not those who are perversely rebellious” (9: 80). After the death of the chief hypocrite, ‘Abd Allah ibn Ubayy, the Prophet — mercy and peace on him — saw no decisive prohibition in this verse against praying for hypocrites. This was, firstly, because outwardly the words give him a choice between asking forgiveness or not (Whether you ask for their forgiveness, or not…). Secondly, the verse mentions that God would not forgive even if he was to ask seventy times. His hope was that if he asked more than seventy times, it might be enough to secure forgiveness for Ibn Ubayy in spite of his open and insidious antagonism of the Prophet — mercy and peace on him. His companion, ‘Umar, contested this understanding of the Prophet’s — God’s mercy and peace be upon him. Later, the following verse was revealed confirming ‘Umar’s stance, “Nor do you ever pray for any of them that dies, nor stand at his grave; for they rejected Allah and His messenger, and died in a state of perverse rebellion” (9: 84)
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Perhaps Koholeth (Ecclesiastes 3.1) should have the last word:
To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven
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J. Scott Shipman:
December 10th, 2011 at 2:47 am
Hi Charles,
I agree. Your quote of Ecclesiastes as a closer is spot-on. There is much madness in our world—mostly man-made.
Steve Heise:
December 10th, 2011 at 6:58 pm
Regarding retaliation, and the null hypothesis of innocence until proven guilty (as in forgiving tit-for-tat):
If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again. Then quit. There’s no point in being a damn fool about it.
– W. C. Fields
See also:
Behavioral and Neural Evidence of Cognitive Hierarchy Reasoning in Game Theory
http://s4sn.org/drupal/?q=node/36
Charles Cameron:
December 25th, 2011 at 3:20 pm
I came across the following verse the other day, attributed to the Sufi poet/saint, Rumi:
Here is is not a matter of our forgiving another, but of the forgiveness we may ourselves receive.