Forgiveness and Mercy: more recent words..
[ by Charles Cameron — adding angles to an existing series of posts on a crucial (pun fully intended) topic ]
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I’m doing some catch-up on uncompleted posts here, and today I’d like to add two comments I ran across a while back to the two posts I’ve already written on forgiveness:
Some recent words from the Forgiveness Chronicles More recent words from the Forgiveness Chronicles
Given time, I’d probably edit these down a bit, but (a) I got unceremoniously dumped from my abode less than a week ago, with two hours to move my library and my life, courtesy of the landlord’s violation of safety codes — or perhaps courtesy of someone’s opportunity to make a bundle in real estate by closing down two hotels, who knows? — and (b) I therefore no longer have my library to hand, and am backed up in terms of my writings, so..
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Without further ado and with little or no editing, here are the voices of:
or many people, the forgiveness offered to Dylann Roof, the man charged with killing of nine black members of Emmanuel AME Church in Charleston, South Carolina, at his arraignment by the families of his victims is impossible to understand – and worthy of veneration. “I forgive you” said Nadine Gardner, daughter of slain church member Ethel Lance. “I will never ever hold her again. But I forgive you, and may God have mercy on your soul”.
But how could someone forgive such a heinous crime so quickly, so easily? The answer lies in part with Christian interpretation of the New Testament, a history of racialized violence and the civil rights movement.
Black churches taught us to forgive white people. We learned to shame ourselves
Forgiveness is a spiritual practice and biblical mandate from the New Testament that many American Christians engage in as a part of their faith. Familiar scriptures (such as Jesus forgiving the Romans while hanging on a cross, or saying that forgiveness should be given 70 times seven) are staples of Christian teaching and theology. Forgiveness is enshrined in the Lord’s prayer – forgive us our debts as we forgive our debtors. These scriptures point to the power of forgiveness not only as a way to absolve transgressions, but to ensure that the person extending forgiveness will be forgiven of theirs. For many Christians, these teachings form the foundation of their Christian faith, even when that forgiveness can be difficult to give.
Historically, narratives of forgiveness were part of both the anti-slavery movement and the civil rights movement in America. Uncle Tom’s Cabin, for instance, was based loosely on the life of the Rev Josiah Henson, who forgave his master that wanted to sell him and beat him after Henson begged him not to.
I fell down and clung to his knees in entreaties. Sometimes when too closely pressed, he would curse and strike me. May God forgive him!
These slave narratives in the 19th century were designed to put forth messages of Christian love and mercy, even in the face of the masters’ violence and cruelty. For many slaves and subsequent free black people, forgiveness was also a way to protect themselves from continued racial violence. A well placed “I forgive you” served as protection for vulnerable African Americans in a violent racist environment by calling out to oppressor and oppressed’s shared religious faith.
In the 20th Century, the non-violent “soul force” that Martin Luther King Jr taught was a combination of Hinduism and Christianity. Forgiveness became a big part of the civil rights movement, juxtaposed against the violence of protesters and law enforcement. King described forgiveness in one of his early sermons as a pardon, a process of life and the Christian weapon of social redemption. In MLK’s words, “forgiveness is not an occasional act, it is a constant attitude”
History and scripture are just the foundations for the stunning words of forgiveness from the families of those murdered at Emmanuel AME, expressions apparently driven by sincerity and theChristian witness of the surviving family members. However, forgiveness deployed in the context of American race relations become part of the ritual of what I call racial forgiveness.
Racial forgiveness is different than a theological premise; it is a cultural ritual in America which functions to atone for the past racism (as with the apologies from various denominations, such as Southern Baptists, in the 1990s) or in an attempt to provide African Americans a way to move forward and acknowledge historic and recent racial pain. These public acts of racial forgiveness are important, but they can also bring about ritual forgetting when co-opted by individuals or groups with little interest in atonement.
This ritual forgiveness and forgetting is one of the reasons America’s conversation on race is stilted, disingenuous, and dangerous. In a culture of ritual forgiveness and forgetfulness, no one is called to account for historic deeds done against others, and history is viewed as a malleable story to support the forgetting. That is why the conversation about the Confederate Flag and its meaning are simply swept away as a “cultural matter” or history, when the reality is that the flag was a symbol of resistance to the Union and, later, used as a way to continue the culture of the Confederacy and terrorize Africans Americans.
Forgiveness unfortunately, can birth forgetting: by the time the arraignment ended, the ritual forgetfulness had already begun. Politicians like Jeb Bush claimed not to understand why the shooter would want to kill black people and conservatives claimed that the shooting “was an attack against Christians”.
How long will forgiveness and the subsequent forgetting be a means to derail sustained efforts to confront racism in America? For black people, there is no forgetting of the history of American racism, or the complicity of Christians in that history. When a white man walks into a black church, sits for an hour, and then allegedly shoots nine black people dead, no amount of forgiveness given for his murderous act by the families of the dead can absolve America of its violent history of racism, no matter how much those complicit in that racism might hope for it.
And:
“I’d like to now apologize to the victims and the survivors,” Tsarnaev said.
“If there is any lingering doubt, I did it along with my brother.”
As he spoke in courtroom, he began to cry.
“I am sorry for the lives that I have taken, the suffering that i have caused you, the damage that I’ve done.”
“Immediately after the bombing, of which I am guilty of, there is little doubt about that. I learned their faces, their names.”
Tsarnaev also thanked the jury and his attorneys.
“Made my life the last two years easy. I cherish their companionship,” Tsarnaev said about his defense team.
He concluded his speech by asking for mercy for himself and his brother.
“I am Muslim. My religion is Islam,” Tsarnaev said.
“I ask allah to have mercy on me my brother and my family. I ask Allah to have mercy on the Umah. Thank you.”
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If there’s anything in particular here to take note of — and I’m not sure we should generalize from such a tiny sample — it’s Butler’s use of forgivess terminology and Tsarnaev’s corresponding use of mercy.
Forgivness is taught in the Christian Lord’s Prayer, while The Merciful in Islam is one of the great and beautiful Names of God.
July 16th, 2015 at 11:05 pm
Forgiveness is something equals can grant to each other. Mercy is granted by a superior being.
July 17th, 2015 at 12:05 am
Yup. There is some forgiveness of others in Qur’an, but mercy occupied the predominant position.
July 17th, 2015 at 1:26 am
Mercy is external. Forgiveness comes from the heart. Roman emperor’s were famed for their mercy–or as they called it, clementia. Occasionally they would show such mercy even to those who had personally wronged them or their families. The optics of such mercy was great. Whether or not clemency was given due to feelings of charity or cold political calculation is irrelevant–it is clemency either way. Forgiveness must come from the heart.
July 17th, 2015 at 3:16 am
In Christianity, we also teach that those who do not forgive will themselves not be forgiven and God knows the heart, so just saying it and not meaning it doesn’t count. It’s hard, and sometimes I have to let God work through me to forgive. Here’s the Bible reference – http://biblehub.com/matthew/6-15.htm
July 17th, 2015 at 3:59 am
It’s in a specific context, sure, but Qur’an 64.14, for instance, says something along much the same lines:
More general in app;lication, there’s Q 42.40:
I think my observation about the different emphases on forgiveness and mercy in the two religions is probably worth keeping an eye out for, though. Fascinating discussion, all.
July 17th, 2015 at 3:27 pm
Charles, you may find this story interesting – http://www.guideposts.org/inspiration/stories-of-hope/guideposts-classics-corrie-ten-boom-on-forgiveness
July 17th, 2015 at 6:50 pm
Hi Scott:
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Nice one.
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I’m trying to recall the story of a woman who expressed compassion when she saw a Nazi guard beating a Jewish victim, and someone thought she was feeling sorrow for the victim, but no, it was for the guard, and the ugliness that must have so deeply infected his soul. I thought it was a Corrie Ten Boom story, but apparently not. Does anyone recall the details?
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I am adding the Guideposts story to my collection. What a woman!
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She reminds me of Trevor Huddleston, running up to some S African cop who was coming to arrest his friends Sisulu and Mandela, saying “No, you must arrest me instead, my dears.”
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It’s that “my dears” — addressing the cop — that’s so typical of Fr. Trevor. I can just hear his voice saying it!